Did you ever meet a girl you just couldn't read? If you're like many guys, that's a definite yes. Most men do not recognize when women are crushing on them, primarily because it can be hard for women to pursue men without feeling embarrassed.
So, how can you tell if a girl is into you? Every woman is different, but these signals might often indicate that you should chat her up.
It seems like you keep running into her, or she goes out of her way to talk to you.
Fun fact: a lot of women aren't ready to approach men, but will go out of their way to make themselves accessible to guys they like. If you find yourself constantly running into her or notice that she seems to find reasons to chat with you, she might like you.
She's always looking into your eyes or at your mouth.
When most women are interested in a person, they'll maintain eye contact. It's a sign of comfort and connection. If you notice her looking away, she's likely just uncomfortable and pretending to be nice for nice's sake.
The mouth gaze is pretty simple. Women tend to look at a man's lips when they are sexually attracted to them.
You catch her staring at you, and then she looks away.
Yes, that usually means she's checking you out. This is doubly true if you see her give you the "elevator eyes" look that involves looking at you from the feet to your head.
You've noticed that she prioritizes you.
Guys know that they tend to prioritize their crushes. It's no different with women. If a girl likes a guy, she will often prioritize him over other people in her vicinity. If there are a bunch of things she has to do, but you offered to bring her to a local meetup, does she drop what she's doing to go with you?
If she usually dodges responsibilities to hang out with you, she might have a crush on you.
People suddenly seem very interested in your dating status.
Bold women tend to be direct when asking about a crush's dating life. They may subtly bring it up in conversation, ask questions about that last girl you saw, or even ask about the type of women you enjoy.
Girls who aren't that bold will still want to know what's up with your love life. They won't ask you directly, though. They will, however, enlist the help of others to dig up the dirt. If her friends ask you about your dates or talk her up, it's likely she asked them to do that.
Of course, some get even more shy than that and may use the internet or social media to get the scoop on you. If she knows things about you that she shouldn't, it's likely she searched you up.
It always feels like she wants to tell you something but can't.
When you get major feelings for someone, it's easy to want to tell them how you feel. The hard part, of course, is actually saying those words out loud. If she's extremely shy or embarrassed, she won't tell you how she feels.
Rather, she'll tiptoe around it. Or she'll come close to saying it but suddenly change the subject. Or it'll just feel like there's a strange vacuum, a pause in the conversation where there should be something said.
It's okay to ask her if something's on her mind. You might be surprised at what you discover.
She's suddenly interested in your hobbies despite having no interest before.
Imagine the following situation: you overheard a girl you like telling a friend that she hates horror movies. You shrug it off, but later decide to talk to your circle of friends about the latest horror flick you see.
Instead of rolling her eyes, your crush starts talking about how she's been interested in getting more into horror movies. Surprised? Don't be. If she's interested in you, she likely will try to partake in your hobbies to get your attention.
The way she treats you is different from everyone else.
While most women end up being friendlier than usual to men they like, not all women behave that way. Some girls might prank men they have a crush on, tease them about their looks, or even try to make them jealous.
Generally speaking, if she treats you differently without being overly avoidant, there's a chance she might like you. The only way to find out is to ask her out.
When I notice a girl acting these ways towards me, I'll let you know 🤣😂🥺😭