And what do you offer her?

And what do you offer her? If she's happier alone or feels like it's a raw deal, she won't want to be with you. 

Girls don't live on easy mode. They don't go out of their way to choose abusers. You never blame abuse victims for trusting the wrong person. 

Abuse is not the victims fault, male or female. The fact that you are blaming women for being abused …