If you are here to learn about women, then don't turn it into "but what about men?"

Whataboutism is hurtful and derails conversations that are uncomfortable and need to be had. If pointing out that this is childish lacks…

If you are here to learn about women, then don't turn it into "but what about men?" Men are already the default.

Whataboutism is hurtful and derails conversations that are uncomfortable and need to be had. If pointing out that this is childish lacks empathy to you, then I'm not the one.