Ossiana Tepfenhart

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No, It's Not Just Men Who Encourage Pickme Behavior

For a very, very long time, I avoided women and this is why.

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Ossiana Tepfenhart
Jan 05, 2024
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For the longest time, I was the girl who just didn’t have female friends. It was never in the cards. In school, girls hated me. I could nothing right. I was the annoying one, I was the piece of shit, I was the school slut. 

Even when I was a virgin, I was called a whore. 

As an adult, my relationship with women is still r…

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