Trust me when I say that abuse is not the fault of the victim.
I actually covered this phenomenon in this article below:
Trust me when I say that abuse is not the fault of the victim. This includes you. This was your dad's fault, and to a lesser point, your mom's for not protecting you. You deserve to take time to heal.
I actually covered this phenomenon in this article below:
https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart/6-things-that-make-men-hate-women-ebdd46b978b0