When I had to make the decision to adopt out my daughter, I got similar reactions from both genders.

People don't understand that this is not a decision you make easily. I'm not mother material and am not emotionally "there" enough to be…

When I had to make the decision to adopt out my daughter, I got similar reactions from both genders.

People don't understand that this is not a decision you make easily. I'm not mother material and am not emotionally "there" enough to be one.

Those women don't understand, or worse, are willfully choosing not to understand. Misogyny is real.